Unlucky in love, twice a hit n now am shut?

i'm a person that had so many incidents in my love life that has always been online... i don't mean by that that i'm a desperate person that looks for love online not at all.. i've got some guys in real life tryin for me but usually i open up for those who i can't see and i get more comfy with them. my first encounter in love was 4 years ago when i met someone who was impersonating as a guy n i end up gettin hurt badly (read the full story here a href="http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnjfBfLSgtlL80fupicIYiEjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080109062955AAFUtUR),"http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…/a and the second relation was only 7 months with a guy who were a totally different culture than me so we ended up fighting n hatin eachother although i still think about him.. but now my question is i feel shut towards guys now i don feel i'll ever love anyone anymore is it possible to find someone after so many downfalls and even if i did will i ever love him the same way i did when i had no experience b4... bcs i feel with everynew love i don't give out as much as i did in my first experience.