Now that we are all older and wiser what would you do differently ..?

History is just that--ya can't change it and to reflect on it is often funny. My first love was a total nerd and so smart it was unreal. He died young. I made a second bad choice--a third choice that lasted almost 20 years--a fourth choice that lasted less than 4 months. I was a wild and crazy one--not daring in a danger sense but just mouthy. I worked hard and don't regret it. The men I choose are always wrong for me so I got a grip and said hey woman you be all that only you can be and party on alone and I am quite happy!